Thursday, August 18, 2016

What I have learnt so Far
I am not sure what being single truly means as I have always operated with a singled view in my past relationships... Yes i made the mistakes of caring to much or being too responsible for the needs of other... 

Do I regret? Somethings I wish I had done differently but I respect my need to have learnt the lessons that I did. Now I travel on a singular road being cautious and deliberate in my steps. Not in a hurry to find someone, just living this life and enjoying it...

I have made so many new discoveries about myself. I had truly lost my way for a few years. So distracted and aloft from my goals that were set. With each new step I am back to and closer to realizing me again.

Tuesday, August 16, 2016


I never thought of minimalism before but watching Youtube has led me down this part and I am so much enjoying at the moment.

De-cluttering my life has certainly given me more insight into who I am and what I place value to. This time of singleness has truly led to so much awakening......

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

Can't always
Today I learnt to look at all my "failures" as necessary for my "successes". Had never looked at them that way before. Always thought I had to live without regretting all that occurred.

I have realized that I need to get back to some of the values that existed in my life before, to look for class and elegance.. to look for what I need instead of what I want...

Aging really makes one educated.

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Friday, April 15, 2016


Sorry I will so try to do better. 

What can I write now that I am no longer in the single zone. Since my last blog I have entered and ended one 3 month dating period and have since reconnected with my first.

I have encountered much but I am trying to do better so that my second change works

Saturday, January 9, 2016


Yes my wishes are a bit late. But a very happy, warm and welcoming 2016 to all.

The past year has thought me so much .... between letting go of what I knew I had to and for me finally walking away. Walking away and eventually finding someone more promising. 

Thank you 2015 for all the lessons you have taught me, good, bad, good, ugly and all in between.


I found when I was least expecting... With baby steps and growth, if it is meant to be then it will be.